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Author: Siobhan

  • Crystals for Beginners

    Crystals for Beginners

    There are so many folks who are finding themselves drawn to crystals but have no idea what crystals are for beginners or which to start with. Let’s dive into that!

    Let me start off by saying that all crystals can indeed be perfect for beginners. If you are intuitively drawn to a specific stone, get it. More often than not, you’ll find that it resonates with your energy and can support you in some way.

    Some Reasons Beginners are Drawn to Crystals

    We are drawn to crystals because they’re pretty. That’s how they attract us. They say that like attracts like, and perhaps on a deeper level, our own soul beauty is drawn to their beauty, and visa versa.

    I was drawn to their beauty when I was experiencing so much negativity, anxiety and zero confidence in my life. Most of that from my own doing but these are the things you learn as you grow.

    A lot of beginners who come onto the crystal path are also struggling with so much negativity and want better protection. Some are looking to find love or are learning to love themselves again. Others are seeking to get back their confidence and power and go after the things that bring them joy. Many want to use crystals specifically for manifestation. And there are many more reasons.

    Crystals for Beginners

    Favorite Crystals for Beginners

    There are so many crystals that are suitable for beginners and all crystals are beginner friendly. These are my favorites that address some common challenges and/or are just great to start with.

    Clear Quartz for its flexibility and amplification. If you had no other stones in your collection except Clear Quartz, you’d be fine because of how flexible this stone is. You’re able to use Clear Quartz for any intention and it can support you with anything under the sun. The only limit to Clear Quartz is your imagination. Word of caution: if you’re in a dark space, try limiting your work with Clear Quartz. It can amplify that feeling.

    Rose Quartz for love and forgiveness. Known mostly for it’s love properties, I’ve always felt that Rose Quartz is more than attracting love or a partner into your life. Yes, it’s great for that, but it’s also wonderful for learning to love yourself. Also, it supports forgiveness on all levels, even if it’s yourself that you need to forgive.

    Selenite for cleansing and purification. If you’re working on getting rid of negativity in your life then this is a great one to combine with your protection stone. Use it to clear your aura, body and mind of negativity after a long day. It’s also a great for connecting to spirit guides, plus it’s incredibly comforting to have when you’re going through challenges.

    Smokey Quartz for grounding. I’ve found it to have a great earthy connection and that’s why it’s fabulous for grounding and connecting with the earth. Being grounded is incredibly important in spiritual work. Being up in the clouds all the time isn’t going to serve you in the long run. Smokey Quartz is light enough energetically but strong enough to keep you grounded regularly. Also, great to pair with Rose Quartz for forgiveness work as it supports letting go.

    Labradorite for protection. Highly protective and shielding but also great for connecting with your own inner magic. Also, it’s stunning and easy to fall in love with. Labradorite is my first choice for protection. It’s always been easier for me to work with it for protection, than the popular choice of Black Tourmaline.

    Amethyst for the mind. Overall it’s pretty healing, just like Clear Quartz but I love Amethyst for it’s mental abilities. It is great for the brain, mind, and intuition, but also protective on that level. If you’re also working on negative thoughts and self-talk, Amethyst will support you to pinpoint and work on that too.

    Golden Tiger Eye for happiness, confidence and supporting manifesting. Not only for that, but for protection too. Manifesting and manifestation are trendy words and actions these days around money. Golden Tiger Eye does support that but it’s a great stone to support you on your path to going for what you want with confidence and fire!

    Lepidolite for relaxation and relief. Perfect for when there is so much going on and you are struggling to keep your head above water. Lepidolite is so soothing and calming. To me, it’s like a massage in a crystal form. When I first began working with crystals, I wish that I had worked with more grounding and relaxing stones. I was so busy all the time and falling over because I wasn’t thinking. A great one to bring back balance, especially when paired with a grounding stone.

    Some other stones you may consider include: Green Aventurine for growth, Carnelian for motivation and energy, or Sunstone to remain strong in your boundaries.

    All crystals can be suitable crystals for beginners depending on our own energy and what we are going through. It’s hard to choose when you’re a beginner and faced with so many crystals to choose from.

    This guide is only a guide and you should always trust your intuition when purchasing crystals. Always go with what you are attracted to.

    How to Use Crystals for Beginners

    Short and sweet: wear or carry them in your pocket or bra. This is the easiest way to work with crystals when you’re starting out. Not only is it comforting to have them so close to you, but it’s easy to build a relationship with your crystal and remember what you’re working on with your crystal.

    Once you get more intune with your crystal, your intuition and building your confidence with your crystals, you may want to experiment with other methods for using your crystals.

    In Conclusion

    There are many crystals for beginners which are suitable. It’s important to always trust your intuition when choosing a crystal, whether that’s from a guide like mine or when your shopping. Once you’ve selected one, work with it.

    There’s no rush to finding your first crystal, a method for working with it and experiencing shifts. Take your time and have fun!

  • Tips for Buying Crystals for Your Birthday

    Tips for Buying Crystals for Your Birthday

    “What the top crystals for your birthday is” – is not the easiest question for someone else to answer. To empower you, here is guidance for buying crystals for your birthday and new year to bring in all the good vibes!

    Your birthday is a good time to take stock of the year that’s past. Think about what you’ve achieved to celebrate that and think about what you didn’t achieve.

    Things you didn’t achieve which don’t align with you anymore, let them go. That space can be occupied with new energy! For the things you didn’t achieve but still want to strive for, get clear about it, so brainstorm steps you can take through the year. You also want to think about what you want this new chapter to look like for you. A lot of people do this at the start of every new year, but it works just as well for your birthday.

    Having direction for the new year can set the stage for choosing the top crystals for your birthday. It’s not a life or death matter if you don’t have very much direction, so don’t stress too much!

    Crystals for your birthday

    Tips for Choosing the Top Crystals for Your Birthday:

    Go to a crystal shop and let your intuition guide you. You an either take notes of the stones you’re drawn to or purchase those. When you get home, research those crystals! This is going to show you in what ways they resonate with you and your life. Look for common threads if there are any and journal about it to set up a theme or intention for yourself. Once you have that intention or theme of sorts, go further and create affirmations inspired by the crystals, how they can support you and your intention.

    If you have a word of the year or specific goals set up, look up crystals associated with that. I like to refer to my crystal books or HealingCrystals.com’s Common Conditions Guide for crystal suggestions. I look at images of the crystals suggested, and note down the ones that catch my eye. Then I go back through the ones that I liked and read up about them to see which are resonating with me. This is a great a starting point for choosing crystals for my birthday, new year or new chapter.

    Another route you can explore for birthday crystals are crystals based on your zodiac sign or birth month. Research the stones that are associated and see which you’re drawn to.

    Something important to mention about crystals and zodiac signs: Just because a crystal is not associated with your sign or birth month, it does not mean that you cannot work with it or have it. Zodiac associations are guidelines, except if that’s part of the crystal healing and astrology training you have received.

    Tips for Choosing Crystals for a Loved One’s Birthday

    If you have a loved one whose birthday is coming up, you can definitely follow the same route:

    • Going with your intuition and keeping them in mind when you make your selection/s when purchasing.
    • Asking them about what they need support with (love, confidence, motivation, new beginnings, etc.) and researching stones linked to that. Keep that person in mind when you’re choosing and purchasing the stones for your loved one.
    • Choosing stones based on their zodiac signs or birth months.

    NB: When it comes to choosing stones for a special someone, you can never go wrong with any selection because you’re buying it with love. Remember that. Trust your intuition and let love lead the way!

    What are some challenges you’ve come across when choosing crystals for your birthday? Let’s discuss it in the comments!

  • Apatite for Body Love

    Apatite for Body Love

    Apatite is known for helping to suppress your appetite, but I enjoy working with Apatite for body love and appreciating the house your soul resides in.

    Whether your body is big or small, tall or short, is beside the point today. Too often we nitpick at parts of us which aren’t deemed attractive by the media or people around us. We learn to hate those bits and spend little time appreciating our body. Your soul is in YOUR body. It’s our job to treat it better and look at it with kinder eyes instead of critical ones. Easier said than done, but I do believe that 5 minutes can make a difference in the long run.

    Blue Apatite for Body Love

    Blue Apatite, most known for helping to encourage mindful eating or “suppress the appetite” as the saying goes, but I want to take you further with Apatite. Here’s a little exercise for you:

    Look at yourself in the mirror with your Apatite in your hand, let it wash over your eyes and see yourself with your soul’s eyes, with love and appreciation. Stand there and look at yourself in the eyes, tell yourself that you appreciate yourself and your body.

    Point out one area you adore and FEEL that appreciation.

    Then look at another area which isn’t your favourite, and with that same feeling of appreciation you felt for the area you love, I want you to extend it as best as you can to this unfavourite area. Choose to send this area some love and appreciation.

    Why Appreciate your Body

    I believe that any change, small and big, comes when we begin to appreciate ourselves first as we are right now. This is where we are and it may not be where we want to be with our bodies but it’s where we are. Acknowledging that helps us to be present so that we don’t bypass to jump to what seems better. It says:

    “I see you now, I’m going to treat you better and appreciate you more.”

    So whether you want to lose weight or not, be fitter or not, wish you were taller or shorter or whatever feature or not, I want you to love yourself as you are right now. Don’t focus solely on the things you hate about your body or wish were different, also see the parts you love because “what you focus on expands”. The more you dislike about you, the more you’ll find to dislike. So focus a little on the bits you DO like and love, even if it’s just your brows 😉

    More about Blue Apatite

    Apatite actually comes in a range of colours but Blue Apatite is obviously blue. It has such a lovely aquatic, turquoise blue.

    Here are some more interesting tidbits about the metaphysical properties of Blue Apatite:

    • Works well with the Throat Chakra making it great for anyone who relies on communication in their job (singers, actors, teachers, sales, writers, etc.)
    • It can bring better overall balance
    • Psychic Abilities are enhanced when working with Blue Apatite (may be great for communicating with guides).
    • It can deepen meditation.
    • Helps you to connect with your inner self.
    • Working with Apatite regularly may help those be more mindful of what they consume (food).

    I’d love to hear how you work with Apatite. Share with me in the comments your experiences with this stone!

  • Crystals for Spirit Guides

    Crystals for Spirit Guides

    Crystals for connecting with Spirit Guides is the second segment in my Spirit Guides discussion. Last week I spoke about what Guides are and a little about my history with them. Did you catch that? Have you got an inkling yet?

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  • Monday Motivation Week 46

    Monday Motivation Week 46

    Are you ready for a VERY belated Monday Motivation Week 46 post? I haven’t been doing these lately but I have a message to share today. Here is my motivation for this week so let’s get those motivation vibes going!

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  • Moldavite Profile

    Today I am talking about a stone I know FUCKALL about except what I’ve read in books. This stone persists in wanting to be shown so here I am sharing my story with it.

    My History with the Crystal Lettuce Leaf

    What can I say about Moldavite? It’s the crystal that every time I saw an image of, I wanted to throw up. I couldn’t understand why people thought this crystal was so awesome! For quite some time I formulated the theory that my home planet was invaded by wherever Moldavite originates and that’s why it effects me so strangely. I have no proof of this obviously, just what I said to explain my nausea.

    After seeing Moldavite after Moldavite for a few weeks straight, I figured it was time and for my birthday, I received a piece of Moldavite from work. Oddly enough, the nausea just disappeared and I thought I’d at least feel it a little bit, but nothing. I started clearing it after I received it and clearly heard “I don’t need to be cleared thanks.” I promptly stopped smudging it then LOL! Cheeky lil fellow.

    Moldavite has a lot of galactic, alien energy seeing as they were formed millions of years ago when a meteor crashed into earth. The meteorites fused with the earth’s materials and boom Moldavite was born. Some starseeds can find themselves attracted to it.

    For now my Moldavite and I are enjoying meditating together. I suppose that when the time is right, it’ll talk again so I’ll hang around and keep at it. Figures, seeing as I’m learning about waiting right now and the art of “I don’t know”.

    Moldavite to remind you that you are outta this world!

    Moldavite in a nutshell:

    • It is associated with the Third Eye and Heart Chakra.
    • Spiritual growth can be accelerated.
    • It enhances meditations/journeys, channeling and awareness of other outer space beings.
    • Always work with a grounding stone before and after working with Moldavite as it can leave you spaced out.
    • It reminds you that you are outta this world – stardust having a physical experience on earth.

    If you LOVE Moldavite, leave a comment with your favorite emoji or tell me what makes it special to you.

  • Working with Spirit Guides

    Working with Spirit Guides

    Hey Everyone – Working with Spirit Guides is a topic I am finally ready to dive into with you. This post has been in the making for a long time but I just never got around to writing it for numerous reasons aka I procrastinated.

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